How to Survive an Affair is a comprehensive step-by-step system to help you survive an affair, designed to help a couple work through the healing and restoration of their marriage, and shows you exactly what to do to about infidelity in marriage.
Dr. Frank Gunzburg, a licensed marriage and family counsellor practising in Maryland, has for the last 30 years helped couples to cope with the problems caused by infidelity in marriages.
There are three distinct phases to this program to help the couple with getting over an affair. The first phase focuses on the individual, both the victim of the affair and the unfaithful spouse. After someone goes through the first phase, then they’ll be encouraged to go through the second and third phase.
It is in these phases that they are shown how to work together to repair the damage caused by the cheating spouse and restore the trust which has been broken by the affair.
Phase I: Individual Healing – Understanding Personal Feelings and Sorting through Emotions
- How to take control of the paralyzing emotions.
- How to regain your sense of stability and get rid of the images.
- How to eliminate the paranoia and restore your self-confidence.
- How to cut off the affair and move back to your unfaithful spouse.
- How to replace the lies with truth after the affair and start over.
- How to understand why the affair happened.
- Discover what was missing from your marriage and how to add it.
Phase II: Healing As a Couple – Working Together to Identify and Resolve Key Issues
- Speed the healing process and protect your marriage from further harm.
- Discover how to talk about the details.
- Transform your marriage with a heart-felt apology.
- Generate new honest communication in your marriage.
- Ignite a renewed life-long commitment.
- Restore peace of mind in your marriage with true forgiveness.
Phase III: Negotiating a Renewed Relationship – Understanding How to Rebuild and Sustain a New Trust-filled Partnership
- Eliminate the suspicion with complete transparency.
- Restore your sex life without haunting visions.
- Affair-proof your marriage for life.
- Develop lasting safety, honesty and intimacy.
- Accept the past without being tormented
Verdict: How To Survive An Affair
An extramarital affair has to be one of the most painful things that can happen in a marriage. Coping with infidelity is hard because the after effects can be devastating for the betrayed spouse. Marriage after an affair will never be the same but surviving an affair is possible with the advice from marriage expert Frank Gunzburg.
This step-by-step system teaches you how to:
- Regain your self-esteem after the affair…
- Replace the anger, depression and sadness…
- Forgive your spouse and get a heart-felt apology…
- Rebuild the trust from the ground up…
- Open the lines of communication…
- Eliminate the negative thoughts…
- End the affairs for good…
- Make the relationship better than ever…
Frank has been helping couples with their marriage problems for 30 years and has used all his hard-won expertise to create this excellent course to help you deal with infidelity in marriage. All that experience shows in the course and it has to be highly recommended for its thoroughness and attention to detail. He will show you the best way to survive an affair.
Hi there,
Your marriage can be saved if you are both prepared to work at it. You probably would be best finding a counsellor in your area.
You left your wife alone for long periods – I know you have to earn a living but she probably just needed someone to lean on. She didn’t have you – maybe she just wanted someone to listen to her and then one thing led to another. I am not blaming you, she should have had more self control, but I can sort of understand how it happened.
If you are both prepared to work then sure you can work these things out. Trust won’t be regained over night though.
Best wishes,
Ruth
I was an instate truck driver may last holidays was great and when it was time to go back to work my wife send to me please don’t go stay with me . But i had to go back to work with in the the doctor declared her as having depreshion then thihgs started to get bad she started to argue on the the phone over little things then i felt some thing was wrong when i got home i waited for her to go to sleep an then cheak her mobile phone only to find out the she had sleeped with someone alse after talking to her she blames me for little things in the past before we the marrige at the moment i can cry but feel angy but want to cry i have turn to the bottle . do you think our marrige can be saved.